This is a label I’ve worn with shame most of my life. Picture a worrier and you’ll no doubt see some sort of hand-wringing neurotic constantly checking the sky like Chicken Little.
Then a few years ago I heard a radio interview with an astronaut that changed my perspective entirely.
The man in question was Chris Hadfield, who, after flying two space shuttle missions and serving as commander on the International Space Station wrote an excellent biography detailing his experiences. https://chrishadfield.ca/books/
Here’s what he said, “Anticipating problems and figuring out how to solve them is actually the opposite of worrying: it’s productive.”
In his interview he went on to describe how NASA positively encourages, not just its astronauts, but also their family members to share their worries pre-mission. They get them all out on the table and then they assess them and plan accordingly.
In just a few seconds my shameful worriers cloak had become a superhero cape. I wasn’t a mousey worrier, I was the Jason Bourne of scenario planning. A strategist, a planner and, most importantly of all, a survivor.
Thanks to my lovely friend and fellow strategist, Nicola for inspiring this reflection. 💗
6 thoughts on “…a worrier”
Yes! I’m with you there!
Excellent reframe. The point being – it doesn’t help to be a ‘passive’ worrier, but it does help to be a proactive worrier (problem solver).
Exactly! Don’t put that worry down until you have a plan!
I found this uplifting and inspirational and I’ve already shared it with a few friends who see me as that hand wringing wreck, hopefully they’ll understand and see me a bit differently now. Now just to start working on a plan!!
Love you as you are, don’t ever change.
Awe, thanks lovely for commenting 🥰 It was your comment that sparked the post in the first place so we’re even on the inspiration front 😊 I really hope this crisis will encourage everyone to see people differently. Wouldn’t that be lovely?
Loads of love to you xx
Hmmm, that makes so much sense! Thanks Em. Xxxx